Just two quick disclaimers because this isn’t my typical post: First off this isn’t sponsored, obviously. Secondly, I have never had a healthy sex-life until coming to the realization that I am gay. After that sexual revolution, I have added “De-stigmatization of women’s sexuality” to my long list of feminist goals. I firmly believe it is important to take care of your sexual needs and explore what you like on your own so you can have realistic expectations in the bedroom with a partner. So, as the title explains, I’m going to be writing my own review of this new toy, as well as the response my partner had to it, to give two different views.
I am a CIS-gay female, and my partner is a straight transgender (female-to-male) person. And this is our new sex toy: Satisfyer Pro Deluxe.
For me, I have been very limited in my sex-toy knowledge, in fact, before I came out and began exploring my desires, I only had a very basic vibrator that was for penetration (which I now realize I’m incapable of orgasming with penetration only). Eventually I progressed to Rabbits, bullets, and most recently wands, which have been my preference. When I saw reviews on this clitoral stimulator, I was definitely intrigued and had to purchase one, but I have to put out the disclaimer, this toy is not for beginners!
When I first used it, I ignorantly cranked it up to the highest power (11 different speeds) and immediately attempted to place it directly on myself. This resulted in me orgasming without even having time to get into the mood, in approximately 30 seconds. So later in the evening, I decided to try my toy out again, and I placed it appropriately, and started working up to higher powers. My response is WOW! This toy is very intense, even for me, who tends to need high levels of stimulation. It is definitely a completely different type of stimulation than I am used to, and I’m 100% sold on this new toy, it was worth every penny and has left me planning for each next use! This toy is even aware of its power, stating in the owner’s manual, not to use on one area for more than 15 minutes. That is definitely preparing for some quick orgasms!
My partner, who is FTM and pre-op, but on testosterone for several years, has a slightly different genital situation and often struggles with finding sex toys that are useful for him. Typically, Feminine sex toys don’t work as well for him due to there being extra body, and Male sex toys don’t accommodate him well. Thankfully, Buck Angel, an FTM trans adult film star, recently came out with a toy specifically for this population that resembled a Male sex toy. Here’s hoping Mr.Angel sees this toy and corners the market!
Anyway, I was interested to see if this toy would work for him, due to the size differences, and was pleasantly surprised to find out that it worked just as perfectly for him as it did for me. He reported, that while normal vibrators and sex toys tend to create a lot of movement of his parts and need re-adjusted constantly throughout sex, he found that the suction and the hole in this toy completely freed him from this issue. Much like my own experience, his initial attempt at using this toy resulted in a very quick and vigorous orgasm, almost implying you can’t even mentally prepare yourself for what you are about to experience! The second attempt at using it gave him the most vigorous orgasm he has had with a toy.
To summarize, we both had an amazing experience and are in LOVE with our new toy. This toy is perfect for women and just as amazing for Transmen! I would recommend this to anyone looking for a new and amazing toy in their collection!